It took a second for the clock to switch over from December 31, 2012 to January 1, 2013.
Yet, the impact of that second is much bigger. The moment in time reflects a symbolic milestone.
That milestone is likely to naturally trigger you to look ahead in 2013, to where you’re going and what you want to achieve this year.
Yet, you may find a little voice saying something like this:
- “Last year doesn’t really feel complete to me. Something is missing.”
- “I didn’t get everything done last year that I wanted to.”
- “I’m not even close to where I wanted to be by now.”
You probably know by now I’m a big proponent of planning the year, months and weeks ahead. It’s something that can be done at any point in the year. I even created a do-it-yourself, on-demand program to meet this need.
However, before you look ahead, you’ve got some unfinished business to do.
It’s about getting closure on last year and to realize not so much what you didn’t get done, but more importantly what you DID accomplish.
I’m willing to bet there were things you wanted to do last year that didn’t get done and it would be easy to write all these things down.
Churning over gaps gets you nowhere fast. It’s a dangerous trap.
I want you to start 2013 fresh, by looking at what did go well last year and then move forward from there.
Rather than swirling in setbacks, celebrate your progress and build from THAT place.
Want to start this year fresh? Wondering how to do that and still feel good about 2012?
Try out the first step of my five-step annual planning system. That first step is The Positive MaximizerTM and has three parts:
Part 1: Take stock of the year.
Get out a piece of paper and answer these questions. This is not about having the “perfect” answers. Simply write bullet points for each of them and go with your gut.
- What worked well in the last year? What didn’t?
- What excited you and gave you energy? What didn’t?
- What’s most memorable to you? What are you most proud of?
- What made you the most revenue? What didn’t?
- What are the hardest things you had to overcome?
- What did you learn? What did you need to UNlearn?
You’ll notice I asked “What didn’t?” a few times. While this at first may seem like a “glass half empty” perspective, I’m asking you to FOCUS on what did work and take into consideration what could have been better.
Part 2: Highlight your achievements.
Get out another piece of paper and create a table with 10 rows and three columns. Label the columns: Achievement, Reason Why, and Further Progress / Specific Action.
Simply think about last year and write down at least 10 achievements in the first column. Include achievements in both your professional and personal areas of focus.
In the second column write down WHY each was an achievement. This sells yourself on the fact it actually was an achievement for you.
In the third column write down further progress and next steps for each achievement. Maybe for certain achievements, some pieces didn’t get done last year. Track those here. Maybe for others, you’re building on them and there will be things in 2013 you’ll want to do next. Also, keep in mind, just because you did something last year doesn’t mean you need to do it again this year.
Part 3: Celebrate & Get Closure.
When you look back, you’ll probably be amazed by how much you accomplished. This alone can give you the confidence and peace of mind you’re on the right track, and the clarity you need to know what to do next.
Celebrate it. I really mean it. Give yourself a huge pat on the back for all you’ve done and all you’ve been in this world. Buy yourself a treat. Give yourself some self-care. Maybe a one-week digital sabbatical. Maybe a spa day. Whatever it is, let yourself have some real closure for all you’ve accomplished in 2012 so you can set your sights for an even bigger and better 2013!
It’s Your Turn.
What’s ONE accomplishment you’re proud of from 2012 and why? Please make a comment below this article and take your first step toward celebrating last year.
P.S. Speaking of 2013, I’d love to teach you how to plan 2013 in your business, based on YOUR vision, passion and strengths. The Annual Planning SystemTM is a do-it-yourself, on-demand workshop if you want an easy and fast way to plan the year, anytime of the year.

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You said celebrating, and that’s one thing that I’m proud of in 2012-myself and my family are more consistent with regularly celebrating what went well. I think its a great habit to share with our 4 year old daughter!
I look forward to hearing your presentation tomorrow!
Josephene, what an amazing role model you are to your daughter. To see her parents celebrating with joy – these are incredibly positive experiences for her (and you both) to have. It was great to meet you on Tuesday. Can’t wait to see you again at another CRAVE Chat!
YES! Nothing can happen without reflecting on what has been achieved, so we can build upon it. I agree. My big achievement is my magazine The Women’s Edge mag (www.thewomensedgemag.com) this one is a little girl’s dream come true. Well, I have been reflecting on 2012 in this respect and things are going to move much further in 2013. I dropped a few things because I wanted to free some time and energy to do what I really like to do. My goal this year is to do what I love with who I love.
“… do what I love with who I love.” I’m in love with that comment, Christine. So powerful!
Hello Nadine,
What a powerful exercise! I knew I had a full year but that really drove home exactly how big my year has been! My accomplishment to celebrate? The creation of my own business (Let’s Start Organizing – http://www.letsstartorganizing.com) and being able to share my unique gifts and talents through it! What a ride – I am now thinking hard about how to celebrate!!
Yay! Kirsten, what did you come up with? How are you going to celebrate? Celebrating is mandatory – I’m not letting you off the hook my friend. LOL
I’m famous for dwelling on what I didn’t get done…I am an organizer you know! My husband keeps telling me that I’ll never celebrate my accomplishments if I only give myself permission for the really big goals, not the little ones along the way. Who knew he was so wise.
I’m going to start my list of things I DID do in 2012 now. Wish me luck!
Sylvia, first off thanks for being honest – it takes confidence to do that. I KNOW you had fabulous accomplishments in 2012 and am excited to see your immense growth in 2013!
Hi Nadine, Thanks for a great post. The biggest accomplishment for me at Devour in 2012 was surpassing our sales targets for the year. I have an amazing team who deserves much of the credit but I also think that hunkering down and trying to learn as much as I could about the power of SEO, blogging, and social media made a big difference as well. I really appreciate your suggestion of taking some time to take stock before plunging ahead into the next set of tasks. One of the tasks on my to-do list though is to get your planning tool/course!
J’Val, congratulations! I got your registration for The Annual Planning System program and am looking forward to helping you with the next steps. I see great things for you in 2013!
Nadine,Thank you for last night! It was the push I needed but on a different light..I think the spin that you create on goal setting is just what we all need. How often do we step back and celebrate and embrace our accomplishments and really reflect and move forward. Cheers to you!
Laura, it’s my pleasure. I had a blast speaking at the CRAVE Calgary Chat. You can reflect on what you’ve achieved every day, week, month, quarter and year. It’s something to build into your daily practice, just like brushing your teeth. I guarantee your confidence, courage and clarity will skyrocket.
Thanks for introducing this exercise, Nadine! I enjoyed thinking about things I had to “unlearn” this past year and giving a nod to my biggest leaps.
In 2012, I chose to say YES to a digital media project very much beyond my normal scope of working with start-up entrepreneurs. It allowed me to design around an international brand and work alongside interior designers, which reignited my love for decor. It wasn’t long after that I jumped and decided to start another bigger venture: to combine media, decor, and image all into one business as an Ultimate Personal Brand Experience. Scary, but soooo much a love of mine. Fingers crossed!
Nikki, you’re most welcome. It was great to meet you at the CRAVE Calgary Chat the other night. What a fabulous experience you got by stepping outside of your comfort zone. Keep going! You’re going to have an incredible year in 2013!
Nadine, this is great. It is a form of measurement, and you cannot manage what you don’t measure. Without assessment, everything is a lousy shot in the dark.
I love the questions, and I especially like these two questions:
“What excited you and gave you energy? What didn’t?”, because if we are really turned on by what we are doing, we have the drive to forge ahead in the face of difficulties,.
“What made you the most revenue? What didn’t?” This is business, and a business MUST make a profit, AND the owner must get paid on top of that. You have to take look at where those profits are coming from and which offerings are a time suck.
BIG Hugs. GREAT JOB with this exceptional post!
I hope everyone does the work here. If they do, they will grow!
Margo
Ooohhh, we are so on the same page here Nadine! I can’t imagine (anymore) going into a fresh, new year without reflecting on the one just finished. The biggest nuggets of clarity for me have been when I’ve given myself permission to do this.
What you so brilliantly pointed out to me recently is that when we reflect, what we THOUGHT we wanted to do next year isn’t at all what’s NEEDED! That kind of clarity only comes from reflecting on the prior year.
And of course, celebrate!
Thanks Nadine.
This is awesome Nadine! Thank you for laying out an awesome way to reflect on last year and take stock before sailing forward into 2013. This work is so important for both my business and personal life.
My biggest achievements from last year center around taking charge. I took charge of the things that weren’t serving me and shifted away from them, such as living situations and jobs. I feel like I’ve taken control again and its an amazing feeling! I can’t wait to see what I accomplish this year!
Nadine – I love the idea of looking back in order to move forward. It is an exercise I do every January by writing in my journal and first focusing on the year that just past and then looking at the new year.
My biggest accomplishment in 2012 was successfully relocating from NY to CA and all that a move of that magnitude entailed personally and professionally. Now, my goal in 2013 is to continue to settle in and enjoy my life here. For my business, my 2013 goal is to LEAP in many many ways by implementing all of the ideas/plans I created in 2012. Now it is time to roll them all out. Very exciting!
“Part 3: Celebrate & Get Closure… check!
“Part 2: Highlight Achievements…. check!
“Part 1: Take stock of the year… how did I miss this?
Honestly, I have not EVER stopped to take stock on my business.. I just go with the flow. I haven’t thought I should maybe pause and honour the moments that really worked, what I accomplished, what generated the most revenue – and pretty well all of part 1. Hmmmm… this could be what I’ve been waiting for all along Nadine, I love how your posts awaken and enlighten the deeper side of Self, Spirit and Business – I promise to honour these questions yearly – I know this will make all the difference. Thank you xo